I am currently doing an application form, which has made me think about an old family friend and it has made me realise that sometimes you have to look backwards to move forwards.
Sometimes it is easier to forgot who has been there in the past and helped shape you for the future. It is strange, sometimes the hardest and saddest memories are the ones which makes you smile strong and gives you the strength to try even harder. If I could give any advice to anyone today - it would be to find a mentor, or two for your life. If you can find people who inspire you than whatever life throws up you, you can come up smiling, even when the end of the smile is being greeted by tears from your eyes. The poem below was written for a friend, who died nearly 13 years ago but his openness and ability to listen and discuss anything is something we could all learn from at times. Open your minds to the power of the unknown and life will always surprise you.
The Mentor
In memory of Tom Scott 1932 - 1997
As we walk in life,
There are quiet mentors behind us.
Hearing our footsteps; feeling our fears.
Sharing our laughter; and catching our tears
There was no friendship asked for,
But the greatest was given
A friendship which was filled with
Fun, faithfulness and fellowship.
The colourfulness of the friendship is easy to recall.
In remembering the smile, the laughter and the kind words.
The eagerness to listen
Backed with the unfailing nature to understand.
What more is needed in a friend?
Qualities like these are priceless,
And it is a friend like that
Who you cannot stop yourself from loving.
Without you, my friend
Life seems a duller place.
The sun has lost a little of its shine
And life hasn’t got the same bounce.
I miss your strength
Your courage and belief in the world and its wonders
I know you’re there, in all our hearts.
But sometimes that just won’t be enough.
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